A friend the other day mentioned that we had inspired her and her husband to live a simpler life. So I got to thinking, what is this simpler life she speaks of?
Now I’m a relatively smart girl, so I figure she speaks of the simple nature of our life. Many people dream of returning to our roots a bit. We picture this sweet life of gardening, farm animals, home baking, and lots of kids running around. I get the “wow, you are so motivated and inspiring” and the “how do it do it all?” and the “you just know how to do everything!” comments frequently. And to discourage anymore such statements, let me assure you I am not super woman and I can’t do it all and I definitely don’t know how to do everything. I do like creating things and I love to eat, so I tend to spend a lot of time in the kitchen. But to think I inspired someone to live a simpler life? Hmmm . . .
It’s funny, because I wouldn’t describe my life as simple. It’s downright challenging! Don’t take me wrong, I love my life. I love a good challenge, which is how I ended up in such a life. I just don’t want to fool people into thinking that my life is simple. It’s simple in the fact that if you don’t feed the chickens you don’t get eggs. It’s simple in the fact that if you don’t get out there and milk the goat you don’t have any milk. It’s simple in that there will be six hungry people around the table five times a day whether you feel like cooking or not. And simply put, there isn’t running to McDonalds in a pinch. I can’t even get a pizza delivered out here. It ain’t complicated in that sense.
But milking twice a day regardless of how I feel can be exhausting. Especially when I have a goat or two that has . . . well lets just say personality, and gives me my daily workout. Chasing bucks that get out of the pen to mingle with the girls during supper time has to be taken care of immediately. Discovering the donkey has wondered down the road requires my attention before he wanders too far regardless of what I’m doing at the time. When temps drop below freezing and 25 gallons of water has frozen solid, someone has to take a hammer and break it up so that the animals can drink. Cooking from scratch 3-5 times a day makes a big mess and I usually run the dishwasher twice a day. When I get a box of produce to can, it has to be canned quickly to produce the best product. These are long days on my feet in a hot kitchen. And among all of that I have to fit in the daily homeschooling, cleaning, and budgeting. If you could write my life out in if/then statements, it would be simple.
But from where I am standing, sometimes I dream about your simple life. Paying rent so that I am not responsible for all repairs. Having a small backyard in which to make beautiful and just enjoy. Being close to activities and shopping so that it doesn’t take all day to get my groceries bought and being able to take advantage of library programs and field trips. Having time to hang out with friends or a quick visit to the coffee shop. Actual time to sew and scrapbook because I’m not caring for animals. People would actually be able to swing by and visit.
This is one of those “the grass is always greener on the other side” scenarios. So I remind myself that the grass is great over here, it’s just different over there. And I remember that I chose this life and love this life. And if anyone wants to venture my way I would LOVE to share what I know and help and encourage. But please don’t come over here just because you think it’s a better, simpler life. Come over here because you want to find pleasure in working hard for your family and getting closer to this wonderful world God has given us to enjoy. Come over and learn a new way of life for the good of you and your family. This is a great life.
And if you want to just get your feet wet, you are welcome to set up a time to come out and check out what we “do” everyday. I love that I inspire someone, just want it to be for the right reasons.












